Tuesday, July 11, 2006 : None-.
Someone, whom I shall not mention, has taught me something that until today, I value very much. I don't know how to classify the principle that the person has taught me but I shall explain it in the very best that I know how.
Some guys can curse alot. And I mean alot! Like, more than half their sentence are swear words. Now, some people, like me, can stand these kind of swear words. I mean, they're no alien language nor repulsive language to me. Its still a language, its still a word.
However, some people can't stand it. Really can't stand it. Like when their friends swear, they will "tegur" their friends. Though, it really doesnt do any good. Haha. Anyways, that person's point of view on the friend who curses alot might change, for the worse. These kind of people I'm talking about are girls of course. And the people who swears alot that I'm talking about are guys. We're talking majority here.
So this act that I've been taught is; no matter how fucked up your language is when you talk to your normal friends, always mind your language when having a conversation with girls.
Whoa, I sound so smart right now. Haha. I'm so proud of myself.
Anyway, I digress. No matter how many swear words I use in my daily conversations, you won't be hearing any of them when I'm having a 1 on 1 conversation with a female companion. Its not about the act of flirting, its about the act of being in the lady's favour. Some may call it a pussy act but think what you want to think, my thoughts remain the same.
But when I go into the act of flirting, its a whole new system. And the system which I have just stated above, helps, alot. Based on personal experience of course.
But that doesn't mean one can never swear when talking with a female. First, you gotta make sure that the female is comfortable with swear words. At least, thats what I do first. If you hear the female swearing, thats the OK signal for you to swear too. But not excessively.
Hei, I could write a book about this. Haha. Call me Dr. Jule from now on.
However, it is impossible to completely filter out swear words especially when you use it everytime you talk with your other friends. So, once or twice in a blue moon, I let out a swear word. Usually on a special occassion that doesnt happen as often as Nature Calls.
Call me a pussy if you like but I feel that this act that I've been taught, is worth practising. And you have no idea how hard it is to practise it.
Fooh. Imagine not being able to use the word "fuck" to express something beyond the reach of a mediocre word. It sort of hangs the conversation, thinking of a better, less aggresive word to replace the word "fuck".
And with this, I end my philosophy. Please purchase my books. It will be out by the end of July. Check your nearest retail outlets!
*PS: Early birds get a free bookmark with my autograph on it. =P